Keep the word "safe", safe for us! -

Today my brother lost a friend to a food allergy. It broke my heart when I heard this for many reasons. First of all, this child, friends and family knew he had a serious food allergy. Second of all, this was completely avoidable. I know I cannot sit here and dwell on this awful event, however I would like you to remember that allergies are life threatening. Some symptoms are visible and some are silent. Some have instant effects and some come with time. However NO ONE should have to worry about eating something they believe is "safe".

 The word "safe" means more to a person with food allergies than it does to an average individual. To me, it means no stomach aches, fevers, mood swings, long-term effects such as malnutrition and so much more. To many it means no visits to the hospital, no epi pens, no trouble breathing. The word "safe" allows us to have a sigh or relief. I can eat that! YAY!

Please don't roll your eyes or think its ok to pretend its safe or forget to tell the chef or wash the ice cream scoop or put bread on my plate, dip your cracker in the dip, mix up the soy milk with the cows milk. If you mess up, admit it.. its better than being quiet!